Making good decisions is important for Parents when dealing with bullying. Problem is many times we are not taught how to make good decisions. We are out of touch with our priorities, make pseudo-decisions or get blocked and caught up in analysis paralysis.
Sometimes we make decisions by not making any decision at all. See if any of these sound familiar:
All of these are ways of avoiding or letting circumstances control your decisions.
In addition to avoiding making decisions as in the pseudo decisions above sometimes we get blocked and find ourselves unable to make decisions.
All of these and more can block us from making good decisions.
In my opinion people are often stuck because they are out of touch with priorities and/or feelings. Hiring a life coach can ensure you are on track and able to make decisions based on what is most important to you.
It is very similar to problem solving.
For making good decisions there is one thing you need to remember. There is one big FACT that I can share with you that will make a difference in all your decision making.
Believe it or not the biggest thing to remember is that in very few instances is one decision better than another.
Many times we get stuck in analysis paralysis. We keep going over the same information hoping something will change. It will eventually because life is about change. Super serious life changing decisions are very rare. However, whether you get exercise by biking or jogging does not matter and most decisions are like that.
Making good decisions is about knowing your priorities and making the decision based on them. Don't know what your priorities are then that is a good place to start. I can help
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